Social Media and the Yamas

by doniree on December 10, 2009 · 51 comments

in Twitter

Alternatively titled: How Twitter Taught Me to Be More Concise; Except, Not Really

I don’t write a whole lot of any how-to posts or “we should blog like this” posts or “I like Twitterers who Tweet about X, Y, or Z topics best,” because frankly?  It’s. The. Freaking. Internet.  Say what you gotta say (you know, that’s truthful and respectful and all, because general ethical practices like “be nice to people” should still exist on the Internet), and the people that like you will stick around and the ones that don’t can unsubscribe, ignore, or just you know, not read.

But I do have one thing that I’ve noticed myself starting to think about as kind of a challenge in learning to write a little more concisely.  That being said, let’s not judge the clarity or brevity of my posts (particularly this one); I’m just saying it’s a thought I had.  Not necessarily my How to Blog Manifesto.

Moving on

Ok, so raise your hand if you’re a Twitter user and you’ve ever had to edit one of your tweets down from like, 150, oklet’sbehonest 200+ characters to 140 or less.  You change words, use contractions, omit the unnecessary.  At least, that’s how I do it, because frankly, I hate tweets that look like a 16 year-olds text message conversation, so if I can’t say it and spell the word out correctly, then I’m saying too much (some exceptions like “incl” and “approx” are fine (to me) because they’re generally acceptable abbreviations, acronyms like WTF, FTW, etc., are fine too; things like “ur” and “l8er” and “c u” should be banned from the world, IMHO).

I digress

And again, those are my rules.  You do what you want.  If you tweet like a teenager, I’m probably not following you anyway.

So, I’ve noticed that in learning to keep my Twitter thoughts under 140 characters, I’m learning to say just what I mean.  No filler, no extra.

Twitter and Satya

I realize I’m taking this way out of context, but I kind of think this is like the digital version and translation of the yama, satya.  Satya is “right speak,” or “truthfulness,” depending on whose translation you check out, but it essentially means that you ‘mean what you say, and say what you mean.’  You don’t rely on filler conversation to fill awkward silences; you don’t gossip and chatter to look or sound cool, especially when you don’t even mean it.  You simply say what you mean, and mean what you say.

It’s a challenge, for a talkychatty person like myself, but I try to keep this in mind throughout my waking moments.  It’s been noted that I’m totally down with comfortable silences, but it’s also largely because I’d rather shut up than talk about nothing; I try to make my words count – which is challenging when you LIKE to use a lot of words.

Twitter kind of requires that we get to the point.  For any writer who also values using full words (or otherwise noted acceptable acronyms and abbreviations), we have to learn to cut out the clutter and simply say what’s important.

I kindofsortofsometimesbutdon’tjudgemewhenIdon’tok? do the same thing with blog posts.  I won’t publish anything over a personally-determined-as-acceptable-for-myself number of words unless it’s something like this where I bring together a bunch of other people’s responses and ideas.  I absolutely am aware that I can be wordy, and I get that we’re busy.  Bloggers/digital natives are multi-taskers who are reading blogs, working, tweeting, daydreaming, eating breakfast, watching TV, writing blogs/articles, GChatting, listening to iTunes on shuffle because you don’t have the time to pick a playlist, much less create one, running to meetings, and well, you know – living.

I actually even thought about going through this post and crossing out all the things that could have clearly been omitted and still gotten the point across.  I might still do that.  (Update: Clearly, I didn’t do that.) And no, I’m not deleting this sentence simply as proof that this is not a “rule” or a “thing” or a “guideline” and that I can break my own “rules” and “things” and fake guidelines all I want because this is my blog and you should break the “rules” and “things” and “guidelines” on your own blogs and Twitter because you can and who’s really an authority because we all have different voices and objectives and stuff and things and maybe we just like writing for the sake of writing and don’t need “rules” and “things” and “guidelines”.

Again, IMHO.

So, this isn’t advice or a rule of any kind.  I’m just saying.  Twitter inspires/forces/teaches satya.  Except for that last paragraph where I clearly said way more than I needed to get my point across.  See?  I’m not an authority on blog-writing.

I just like finding yoga in my everyday life.

This post was really a stretch, wasn’t it?

Wine and cookies for anyone still here.

I’m really done now.

The whole point of this post was just defeated wasn’t it?

(I guess an unintentional point of this post was mostly to express that I’m not an authority on how to blog/tweet.  And you might not be either.  But you might be.  So that’s cool for you.)

The fact that I just explained that completely negates the whole thing.  Like, THE WHOLE THING.

This is what 36k feet does to you (I wrote this while on a flight).  I’m all vata and my root chakra is unstable.

Really?  Am I not done yet?

This is so never getting published.

Except if it is, in which case I’m sorry.

Satya.

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becca wikler December 10, 2009 at 4:41 am

I think you make some really good points here Doni. You also make some really strange ones. What I took away from it though (yes, I actually did take something valuable away), is this: If your writing is good/compelling/heart-felt, people actually will read all the way to the end (even when the end includes stuff like "this is never getting published")That said, I can definitely appreciate the brevity that is forced upon us by twitter. I think the blog space is where we get to expand on our short-winded tweets.Lastly, can we REALLY ban "ur" and "l8r" from the internet?!?!!

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Christina December 10, 2009 at 4:13 am

To alter the common saying: "Brevity is the wit of the soul."

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Brazenbaretoe December 10, 2009 at 6:50 am

So you're saying you like Twitter because it cuts out the bull s@*t. That's nice.

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Renee December 10, 2009 at 7:39 am

I love love love the connection you made here!! It totally makes sense to me in a weird "It probably only makes sense to me" kind of way.

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randykw December 10, 2009 at 7:59 am

What in the H3LL did you just say? LMAOROTF :-) Love yaPopsP.S. How's DEN?

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Michelle December 10, 2009 at 8:18 am

I don't care how many words it takes you to get your point across. I will always read every one. <3

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emily jane December 10, 2009 at 9:03 am

I am NOT on Twitter at all. I barely have time to keep up with blogging and I don't have an iPhone or anything on the go so I don't know how I'd ever keep up. Plus – you read my blogs. They're like 1000 words an entry. I SUCK at condensing :)

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doniree December 10, 2009 at 10:43 am

Ha, thanks for reading all the way to the end! I started out with what I
thought was a good point, and then just ran all over the place – that's what
early mornings, flight delays, and too much coffee will do to you, ha :)
And YES, we are so banning textspeak from the Internet.

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Brazenbaretoe December 10, 2009 at 9:50 am

So you're saying you like Twitter because it cuts out the bull s@*t. That's nice.

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randykw December 10, 2009 at 10:59 am

What in the H3LL did you just say? LMAOROTF :-) Love yaPopsP.S. How's DEN?

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Michelle December 10, 2009 at 11:18 am

I don't care how many words it takes you to get your point across. I will always read every one. <3

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rachel December 10, 2009 at 11:19 am

Dear lord, you write like you talk. which, just makes me miss you more. i just got home from a yoga class and i'm currently chilling in my bed with my laptop and my wine. i have no idea how this pertains to your post. maybe this is all the wine talking. i'm sorry. twitter rules and i heart you.

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fuchsiag December 10, 2009 at 12:03 pm

I am NOT on Twitter at all. I barely have time to keep up with blogging and I don't have an iPhone or anything on the go so I don't know how I'd ever keep up. Plus – you read my blogs. They're like 1000 words an entry. I SUCK at condensing :)

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Christina December 10, 2009 at 10:13 am

To alter the common saying: “Brevity is the wit of the soul.”

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Renee December 10, 2009 at 1:39 pm

I love love love the connection you made here!! It totally makes sense to me in a weird “It probably only makes sense to me” kind of way.

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beccawik December 10, 2009 at 1:41 pm

I think you make some really good points here Doni. You also make some really strange ones. What I took away from it though (yes, I actually did take something valuable away), is this: If your writing is good/compelling/heart-felt, people actually will read all the way to the end (even when the end includes stuff like “this is never getting published”)

That said, I can definitely appreciate the brevity that is forced upon us by twitter. I think the blog space is where we get to expand on our short-winded tweets.

Lastly, can we REALLY ban “ur” and “l8r” from the internet?!?!!

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doniree December 10, 2009 at 1:43 pm

Ha, thanks for reading all the way to the end! I started out with what I
thought was a good point, and then just ran all over the place – that's what
early mornings, flight delays, and too much coffee will do to you, ha :)
And YES, we are so banning textspeak from the Internet.

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Nora_L December 10, 2009 at 1:44 pm

I had a post written that was 500 + words the other day which for me, is lengthy. For some reason I got fed up with the entire post and trashed it! That's right, I trashed it. I didn't even feel bad about it afterwards but relieved because I couldn't convey what I wanted to in a "proper" amount of words. I also find that if I can't condense a tweet, I don't say it. Best saved for email or a phone call or something. At least that's how I'm feeling lately but people who can write long posts, make sense and keep only the necessary things? I envy them (ahem, you). Confession: I rarely edit my posts either. Odd that I don't… maybe I should!

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Thomas Gemkow December 10, 2009 at 3:37 pm

Great post…I just might know a guy who would be interested in seeing stuff like this on his page ;-)

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Nora_L December 10, 2009 at 4:44 pm

I had a post written that was 500 + words the other day which for me, is lengthy. For some reason I got fed up with the entire post and trashed it! That's right, I trashed it. I didn't even feel bad about it afterwards but relieved because I couldn't convey what I wanted to in a "proper" amount of words. I also find that if I can't condense a tweet, I don't say it. Best saved for email or a phone call or something. At least that's how I'm feeling lately but people who can write long posts, make sense and keep only the necessary things? I envy them (ahem, you). Confession: I rarely edit my posts either. Odd that I don't… maybe I should!

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Thomas Gemkow December 10, 2009 at 9:37 pm

Great post…I just might know a guy who would be interested in seeing stuff like this on his page ;-)

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 2:32 am

Ha! Thanks for coming by :) I'm excited to talk to you about just that!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 2:33 am

Your style works just wonderfully, lady! :)

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 2:33 am

You're fam. You have to. Ok, you don't, so thank you :) Love you!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 2:33 am

You're lucky I didn't delete this ;-)

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 2:34 am

HA! Thank goodness it made sense to someone else!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 2:36 am

I heart you back.

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Kellie December 11, 2009 at 4:32 am

U crack me up. :) Satya l8er. :) Hehe. (I actually have no idea what satya means). Hope you're having a ball in CO!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 5:32 am

Ha! Thanks for coming by :) I'm excited to talk to you about just that!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 5:33 am

You're fam. You have to. Ok, you don't, so thank you :) Love you!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 5:33 am

You're lucky I didn't delete this ;-)

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nicopolitan December 11, 2009 at 7:09 am

To add geometry to the spirituality of this post, the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. That is the principle I use for thinking about what I say. Also, thank you for adding satya to my vocabulary. :)

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Kellie December 11, 2009 at 7:32 am

U crack me up. :) Satya l8er. :) Hehe. (I actually have no idea what satya means). Hope you're having a ball in CO!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 8:33 am

Your style works just wonderfully, lady! :)

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 8:34 am

HA! Thank goodness it made sense to someone else!

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doniree December 11, 2009 at 8:36 am

I heart you back.

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nicopolitan December 11, 2009 at 10:09 am

To add geometry to the spirituality of this post, the shortest distance between two points is a straight line. That is the principle I use for thinking about what I say. Also, thank you for adding satya to my vocabulary. :)

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courtney December 12, 2009 at 5:40 am

Simply put: You make me smile.Cookies and wine, huh? ;)

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courtney December 12, 2009 at 8:40 am

Simply put: You make me smile.Cookies and wine, huh? ;)

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Katie December 13, 2009 at 12:33 pm

Agreed on the "Short Speak". My biggest pet peeve is the use of the word "U" instead of "you". I've stopped following people because of it. Also? Chained messages. Like if they can't fit it into 140, they do about 10 consecutive Tweets. HATE IT.Love u though.Ha, I joke. (The u part. Not the love part)

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Leslie_Forman December 13, 2009 at 12:45 pm

I think Twitter is useful for training myself to write in brief, sharp terms. Of course these sometimes require a bit of context. Here's my latest tweet:I got my hair cut. Stylist said, "Wear your green dress." He remembers my clothes! 6 mo. after last visit!! Followed advice :) thanks #8 I live in China, which I guess is the most important bit of context to understand this little post. I like your blog :)

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Leslie_Forman December 13, 2009 at 12:46 pm

Oh, and one more bit of context. In China, hairstylists and masseuses and even bank employees wear nametags with just a number on them. When you request a specific person, you do so by number! I am so proving your point!

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floreta December 13, 2009 at 1:34 pm

lol. i like your writing voice. i would argue that there's PLENTY of gossip on twitter though. :P but good thought. i think the general say what you mean, mean what you say thing would fit in 140 characters or less ;)

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Katie December 13, 2009 at 3:33 pm

Agreed on the "Short Speak". My biggest pet peeve is the use of the word "U" instead of "you". I've stopped following people because of it. Also? Chained messages. Like if they can't fit it into 140, they do about 10 consecutive Tweets. HATE IT.Love u though.Ha, I joke. (The u part. Not the love part)

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Leslie_Forman December 13, 2009 at 3:45 pm

I think Twitter is useful for training myself to write in brief, sharp terms. Of course these sometimes require a bit of context. Here's my latest tweet:I got my hair cut. Stylist said, "Wear your green dress." He remembers my clothes! 6 mo. after last visit!! Followed advice :) thanks #8 I live in China, which I guess is the most important bit of context to understand this little post. I like your blog :)

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Leslie_Forman December 13, 2009 at 3:46 pm

Oh, and one more bit of context. In China, hairstylists and masseuses and even bank employees wear nametags with just a number on them. When you request a specific person, you do so by number! I am so proving your point!

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floretacui December 13, 2009 at 4:34 pm

lol. i like your writing voice. i would argue that there's PLENTY of gossip on twitter though. :P but good thought. i think the general say what you mean, mean what you say thing would fit in 140 characters or less ;)

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Kelly L. January 6, 2010 at 5:45 am

Oh man. I always feel victorious when my original tweet falls within 140 characters without any editing. I, also, HATE HAAAAAAAAATE the "text lingo" that WILL NOT DIE. 'omg me 2 u r so rite' or whatever. I got all twitchy just trying to write that one sentence. Sigh. Anyway. I don't know what my point was other than an emphatic ME TOOOOOOO.

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Kelly L. January 6, 2010 at 8:45 am

Oh man. I always feel victorious when my original tweet falls within 140 characters without any editing. I, also, HATE HAAAAAAAAATE the "text lingo" that WILL NOT DIE. 'omg me 2 u r so rite' or whatever. I got all twitchy just trying to write that one sentence. Sigh. Anyway. I don't know what my point was other than an emphatic ME TOOOOOOO.

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